One lazy man with a soft spot for bacon and beer wrestling with his attitude.
That basically sums up the entirety of my existence.
It’s not that I have just one attitude; I don’t, I have many. And it’s not that they’re all bad either; most of them aren’t. But some are. I can be a really lazy bastard. I can be really unhealthy. I can drink too much. I can eat too much of the wrong thing. I can give up on happiness too easily.
It’s those kinds of wrestling matches that led me to the state I found myself in in early 2010. Overweight, lethargic, inactive, and unhappy. I was in a dingy hotel room in some filthy suburb of Paris on a business trip that had been nothing but problematic. I’d eaten bad French pizza almost every day, and snacked on Kinder chocolate and Orangina soda in between. I’d been chain smoking like my life depended on it, and I was seriously sleep deprived. It wasn’t a pretty sight, and it was less of a pretty feeling.
Two days before I left Paris I was in my hotel room having worked a 19 hour day in a cold, dry datacenter. I had taken a quick shower before intending to catch a few hours sleep. As I stepped out of the bathroom with the ludicrously small towel stretching under the strain of my rotund girth, I caught a glimpse of my side profile in the full length mirror.
And I was horrified. I was disgusted. I was upset. I was angry. For the first time, it brought me to tears. I was a skinny weed when I was a kid; how on earth did I let this happen? I vowed there and then that as soon as I got back home, things would change.
I’d said that before, of course. But this time I meant it. This time, I stuck with it. And that’s where my journey began.
That was almost 5 years ago at the time of writing this. In those five years up until today I’ve changed my eating habits, lost weight, learned to run, been through a divorce, spent countless hours with a psychological therapist, gained my US citizenship (I’m British by birth), and made better decisions that have led to a happier me. Today I stand at a reasonable 175 lbs, down from 216 lbs at my heaviest, and slightly up from my lowest of 163 lbs.
As you’ll see on my ‘Races‘ page, I’ve got a few races of various lengths under my belt now. At the end of 2013 I had a crazy idea. “What if”, I thought, “I did 12 half marathons in 12 months. Could I do that?” And so, to prove something to myself about my ability to persevere on long term goals, I did. And I write this today, 4 days after completing my 11th half marathon of 2014, wishing that I’d starting writing about this journey a long time ago.
I have one half marathon left until I complete the goal I had set a year ago, and already I am thinking longer, harder, bigger, and more challenging next year and the years beyond. This humble blog is where I will chronicle the journey from here on. I’ll have good days and bad days, I’ll be happy and sad, and I’ll have those moments where all I will seem to do is whine and complain and rationalize and find excuses to skip the workout and eat bacon and drink beer instead. My hope is that I’ll gain some personal accountability and be able to shut that down with six simple words.
“Shut the f*** up and run.”
Peace,
James